emails can be used for good and naughty

well i was IMing my friend Sara yesterday and we were complaining to each other about of husbands like we all ways do LOL. i came to a decision that i was gonna write my husband an email because im a crappy writer and when i say things they dont come out right.
so here is the email i wrote him and it does have some naughty things in it but not to bad lol
i not nagging if you aren't doing something i ve been asking and asking you to do. i really wish you would take the things i ask you to do seriously. ive been asking you to pick up after yourself and i haven't seen any change it may seem like no big deal to you but every little bite helps and takes alot off my shoulders.
if you dont know what in talking about ill give you a list.
picking up after your self is the main thing throw your trash away, put you dirty clothes in the hallway, put things back where you got them and keep you stuff picked up off the desk. i know im a stay at home mom and my job is to take care of the kids and the house. but after i have been cleaning all day and you come home and tear it up what i just did its very irritating.
and yesterday i was getting irritated cause you had left to go to your friends house and once you got home you ate dinner and then plopped your ass on the couch while i was doing everything( im not mad that you went any where, just the fact that when you get home you dont do shit).
and when you leave i dont have a mess waiting for you to pick up when you get back. when i go somewhere i come home and pick up the mess everyone made clean the dishes and i really dont think that is fair, cause i dont think you would like that every time you leave and when you get back, oh ok heres a mess for ya, heres your reward, you shouldn't have went anywhere, thats how i feel.
i haven't been telling mom when im gonna go somewhere cause every time i do she asks me "HE'S gonna watch them right" it makes me feel guilty for leaving or wondering if you are gonna pay attention to them, or just yell at them. when you leave you can leave for hours on end and you don't worry about a thing when i leave i worry about everything and it makes me sad, cause i cant enjoy my time away.
and then you are so romantic now, telling me yesterday your gonna suck my dick, i would like a little forplay or romance i know i like it rough sometimes but im still a women and like some affection before we get to that point ive been trying to make myself look nice but i still dont get any affection other then you grabing my boobs really hard or you slapping my ass. a kiss on the neck would be so much better first then you can smack me on the ass.
dont get me wrong i love ya but you have been more lazy over the past couple of months. and to be honest it really turns me off with some of these things. like last night all i wanted was to sit down for a little bit and i m still cleaning up their mess and your in the room with them and i walk in and you tell me while you are laying down " change thier pampers and make her a bottle so you can lay her down, she needs to go to bed"
no what are you doing right now, hey babe can you make abby a bottle. you need to look how you are talking to me cause if you pay attention the kids are doing too.
i love you and i just needed to say this to you but you know it wouldn't come out of my mouth this way. i just want you to try and a kiss on the neck would be fantastic. love me
and if you improve on these thing then you can get more pervie emails not these kinds.
well so i sent this to him on Tuesday and he didnt get on to his email neither did he Wednesday morning . but now im shitting bricks cause i had planes yesterday to go with my friend Stacey shopping, and he still hasn't read the email. so when he came home Stacey was already here and after a few minutes we left. so we went to alot of places payless then walmart, then to go and get gas and it was around almost 6pm by the time we got to ross.
After we were there for a bit the phone had rang and it was my hubby and i missed the call so i had called him back. he was asking me where i was cause it was 6 and i told him we were still out and then he asked" so what are me and the kids gonna eat for dinner". which i told him last night if i was too long there was a pizza in the freezer for them and then he got kind of more snotty with me and so i asked him is that it, he said never mind bye. so i took it as he either read the email and wanted me home to talk about it or he didnt read the email and was just being a dick.
so i tried to not let it bother me but it was hard, cause every other second i was think that the fuck i haven't done that to him in a long time and he does that to me all the time. it makes MY TIME away horrible, and instantly puts me in a bad mood.
but this time i wasnt gonna let it happen so we kept shopping for i think 2 hours longer hehehehe. it was so much fun i need to just get out and do anything. i love Stace-age she lets me be stupid i told her that is what im here for comic relief.
so when i came home i was in a great mood and when i walked in the door the house was picked up, the dishes were ready to go into the dish washer(i didnt put up the clean ones before i left) a dnthe kids room was picked up and their beds were ready for night time and the kids where in the bath. can you say shocked!!!
and i was nothing but nice to him didn't mention the email and after i put the kids to sleep, which is his job i did it cause he did a good job for me not to clean up the house when i got home. and than afte a little bit of relaxing i got the kisses on the neck and a hole lot more hehehehe
now my husband can receive hi pervie emails again notw that i typed some sense into him!

finding friends in new places

well it's hard to believe but it has been almost 2 years since i have made an interesting friend at the time. but now she has turned out to be a really great friend, i am so happy that she had the courage to email me.
well about 2 years ago i had got on to my space because of my best friend, she had her art work up on her my space page and so i went there to see them. i like the looks of my space and i decided to create my own page and in some strange way it actually helped me remain sain threw all the shit that fallowed in Kansas. but anyways i had read her first message and she was an ex boyfriends wife. she was just curious about me cause of the relationship me and him had right before they got together. we ended up just talking back and forth comparing stories, which was actually fun.
it is a very interesting thing cause me and her are alot alike in some ways, almost like sisters, were you are alot alike but so different.
i am so happy that i met her, im not sure how happy the ex is but who cares.lol
she became almost needed when i was in Kansas cause alot of shit was going on with my sister and other family members and i was completely alone in the friend category next to my husband and kids. so then me and her started to IM each other, and we would chat when we could catch each other on there.
the reason i know we get along so great is because i am probably the only one who truly knows how my exs family are and i understand her feelings on the hole family drama thing that she is going threw. even though it was about 9-10 years ago but i remember alot that went on.
now she got me into this blog site and now i have another out let because on my space i had ablog and i spoke my feeling on my family,(hell i don't have to watch what i say)on my stingy ass trifling backstaping sister lol, and she had read it and it snow balled into this gigantic pile of shit. i wish i didn't erase it so i could remind myself how retarded she truly is.
thank you girlie you know who you are just in case you don't want your name up on here.lol
hopefully this will help me type better, and please bare with me im dyslexic and thank god for spell check. loves to all Tommie